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This is a blog about us Honeys. We've been married for 6 years, live in Littleton, CO, have a Chihuahua named Dobby, a Rat Terrier named Scarlett, three awesome cats (all referred to as our Furry Kids!) and some fish.
In November 2007 I was diagnosed with Cholangiocarcinoma (bile duct cancer of the liver) and nave been undergoing chemotherapy since December '07 & Proton Radiation Therapy at M.D. Anderson in Houston, TX from December '08 - February '09, and then back on eternal chemo until we get the tumor to shrink away from one salvageable vein in the liver so that it can be surgically removed. We use this blog to keep family and friends updated on our struggles, loves, challenges, celebrations, goals, ideas and the general daily grind!

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Post-Thanksgiving

My feet and my calves are still swollen all the time. By the end of the day, the pain can often be debilitating. *hobble* *hobble* I can only wear my Crocs (sometimes) or my Ugg boots or my house slippers of late. We see my doctor before more CAKE on Friday and this swelling will take top billing on the list of things to discuss with her.

Bless my Honey - last night he helped me soak my feet and legs in a deep tub of Epsom salt and warm water for 20 minutes, hoping the salt content would draw the water out of there. Then afterwards, he gave me a gentle foot and leg massage to help relieve the pain (it basically feels, though does not look, like a bruise whenever that area is touched. The Epsom salt did very little as far as we could tell but the massage was delightful.

I have to take a particular medication about 20 minutes before I eat a meal (or just about anything but a protien shake) or else everything comes back up and that's no fun at all. Sometimes I forget to take it (like this morning) until it's too late. I hate this part.

It bugs me that both of the aforementioned symptoms have not improved the further away from my last treatment that I get. I was under the assumption that this stuff would all go back to normal but I guess it's just proof that the chemo is all still in me, doin' it's job so all I should do is shut my trap and let it do what it needs to do. ??? Again, all will be reviewed with Doc Kane on Friday. Pete is taking me this time.

As for Thanksgiving...well it was wonderful! We drove over to my Dad and Carol's for the day, did all that last minute cooking and such, filled up out plates and then our bellies! I haven't been *stuffed* like that in many months! It felt great! And to top it all off, I got to enjoy my favorite Peanut Butter Cream pie from Marie Callendar's that has the same thickness of sweet merainge as the thickness of the actual Peanut Butter pie filling! Mmmm...there's just a bit more in the fridge. I think I'll go help myself now! Yum!

Now you tell me...how was your Thanksgiving? Where'd you go? What'd you do? Do you have any traditions at Thanksgiving? We have one that I think you'll really like (if you haven't heard of or participated in it already!) but I'm not sharing till you do! COME ON LURKERS!!! PLEASE LEAVE ME A COMMENT!!! When I see zero or just one comment on a post in a week's time, I assume nobody's reading this anymore but my Dad, Carol and Steve and Jane, all of whom I can keep in touch in a different manner! If you don't comment more often, then I won't post as often. Make sense? (That's why I added the questions for you part of almost every post - so I can get you to open up a bit and share on this blog, too! ) Here's your chance!

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey Abbey,
Good to hear you had a wonderful day at your Dad and Carol's. When it comes to Thanksgiving, there's no place like home!! Steve and I visited with friends, here in Fairmont. Lisa and her daughter did most of the cooking. There were eight of us and we feasted until we burst, then sat around and played board games for a couple of hours. Lots of fun and laughter, then more food (dessert) and more talk and games. Before we knew it, bedtime had arrived and it was time to head home. The next day we were happy and sleepy (turkey tryptophan?!) and glad for beautiful weather and the chance to get our butts outdoors!

Lots of love, Jane & Steve

Maggie said...

Heyya! The tradition with us seems to be just stuffing our faces. :) Glad you got to stuff yours! Kudos to Mr Honey for the thoughtful foot massage!!

Dorothy Lou Hammons said...

Hey there Granddaughter,

I know your tradition (unless it has changed, and I hope it hasn't).Finding the olive in the dressing!!! Ha Thought I'd forget, didn't ya?
I had a great time even tho it was not with family. I went to the club (Legends) for dinner. It was spectacular!!! I was surely home made. But I didn't have to wash the dishes. I hope you have good news for us on Friday. \
Love you (Pete,too)
Grandmother

Carolyn said...

We had an Italian/Polish Thanksgiving in Chicago--no turkey :(--but we did have ham and pasta with Italian sausage and apple pie and lemon meringue pie. Then yesterday, Sunday, I made turkey and stuffing and sweet potatoes and all the trimmings for the now close to middle aged individuals who used to live with us (otherwise known as the kids). I'm still stuffed! Glad to hear that you enjoyed your Thanksgiving--and I'll be reading to see what the verdict is on Friday.

Auntie Carolyn

betsy said...

Here's our Barrett family tradition - Mickey cooks all week before we arrive, Jack roasts and carves the turkey, Scott is in charge of the mashed potatoes, Brenda brings the pies, Chris and I are in charge of gravy and clean-up after dinner. What time we eat is determined by what time the Dallas Cowboys play! Then the day after Thanksgiving, Brenda and I go shopping!

Anonymous said...

Sounds like a great day! One of our new traditions that I am begining to like ( don't tell my brother) is running the highlands ranch turkey day 5k with my brother. It has turned into a nice time for us to bond before having to spend the rest of the day with the family. It was really nice this year because, well it was a tough year for the family and me. The nice part about running in the morning is then I don't feel quite as bad about eating whatever I want all day!